Welcome, stardust....glad you joined our "dizzy" group!

Don't even worry about going to a neurologist....many women have gone that route and if it clears any possible concerns, then that's good. The doctors (especially men) are without a clue when it comes to anything other than hot flashes, so they send you off to specialists.
Just keep reading and you will see that you have the common symptoms of menopause, right down to the tingling and the electric shock feeling.
Try to keep a positive attitude! You're coming into a very FREEING part of your life! Sure, there's some adjustments and some discomfort, but that will pass and you will feel confident and have a sense of well being as you become the woman you are!