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Dear
Minnie Pauz Fans,
me. I was shocked since I always offer before someone has to ask for help
and always give whatever I have. I spent a few days feeling pretty sad
that I was being misunderstood and underappreciated. Then I heard something
Dr. Phil said to one of his guests......."What you think of me is none
of my business!" Wow, that was an "aha" moment for me. I realized I
have been spending too much time worrying about making everyone else happy,
not wanting them to be upset with me, trying to make up for past mistakes
and thinking I was doing a pretty good job. Evidently, their opinion
of me is quite different than my own, but why was their opinion more important
than mine? The only thing I've been doing is feeding into the negativity
that for some people just won't go away.